I've been tagged!

Alright. I’ve been tagged by my cousin over at http://astling.com/blog1/. You get to read about the inner workings of my life.
3 joys, 3 fears, 3 goals, 3 current obsessions/collections, 3 random surprising facts about yourself, and tag 3 other people.
Here it is:

3 joys:
I will lump them together, since I have so many joys. :)
First of all, the Gospel of Jesus Christ in my life. I honestly don't know where I would be without it. It brings me comfort, peace, and happiness... JOY.
Second, my family. Hubby, beautiful children, Mom, Brother, Grandma, Fabulous In-Laws, Aunt's, Uncles, cousins.... etc....I am truly blessed! (This also includes those wonderful friends I consider my extended family! All of you that are my friends....this is you!)
Third, This wonderful Country we live in. The freedoms we have and take for granted, and the prosperity that most of us enjoy.

3 fears:
I don't know if I want to name specific fears, for fear of them coming to pass. So I will be general.
1. Loosing my kids in some way
2. Loosing my hubby in some way
3. Loosing my family/friends in some way
(oh, and spiders...ooh...I hate them!)

3 goals:
Numero Uno is getting out of debt. We have less than the average American, but it's enough to be stressful.
Two would be to loose those last pesky pounds that I like to blame on the baby. :) (and the first ones!)
and Three, to get my girls bedrooms painted by the time school starts!

3 current obsessions/collections:
I don't know if I have three....
1. I love remembering everyone I meet's birthday, anniversary and middle name. I guess that is an obsession for me. It's not a psycho thing, I just like remembering important events of the people that are close to me. (any one of you that you think I may not have yours...if you feel comfortable...give em' to me! :))
2. We have been collecting pretty/unusual rocks for some time now. We have quite the collection growing. I have a nice big piece of petrified wood...it's pretty cool.
3. My lawn. It's a fairly new obsession. :)

3 random surprising facts about me:
One: I love sugary cereals. I'm like a kid at heart and Dell likes to tease me about it.
Two: Most people don't know that my name is spelled without an 'A' It's Stephnie, not Stephanie. ('stiff knee, not step on me!) :D
Three: I love camping, but I hate getting dirty, and when my kids get dirty...it's something I'm working on.

OK, now I tag:
Melea
Cynthia
and
HolleeAnn